{"id":10816,"date":"2013-05-20T11:27:10","date_gmt":"2013-05-20T11:27:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.briancullen.net\/stories\/?p=164"},"modified":"2013-05-20T11:27:10","modified_gmt":"2013-05-20T11:27:10","slug":"the-arrow","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/teachingstories.briancullen.net\/de\/2013\/05\/20\/the-arrow\/","title":{"rendered":"The Arrow"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s an ancient story about a man shot with a poison arrow. What should be his main concern, who shot him or getting the arrow out? What about when others shoot us with insults? Isn&#8217;t it more important to get rid of the discomfort than to to be concerned with who hurt us?<br \/>\nWhen people feel hurt inside, they often strike out at those close to them. It&#8217;s like when you stub your toe and yell. It&#8217;s best not to take it personally. It doesn&#8217;t have to become your story. No one can make us feel any way that we don&#8217;t want to feel. So, it&#8217;s really about going deep within ourselves to get the arrow out. Also, get out of target range.<br \/>\nIt only lingers because you haven&#8217;t stopped telling your story. It&#8217;s really pretty simple.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s an ancient story about a man shot with a poison arrow. What should be his main concern, who shot him or getting the arrow out? What about when others shoot us with insults? Isn&#8217;t it more important to get rid of the discomfort than to to be concerned with who hurt us? When people [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10816","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-other","category-stories"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/teachingstories.briancullen.net\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10816","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/teachingstories.briancullen.net\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/teachingstories.briancullen.net\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teachingstories.briancullen.net\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teachingstories.briancullen.net\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10816"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/teachingstories.briancullen.net\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10816\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/teachingstories.briancullen.net\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10816"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teachingstories.briancullen.net\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10816"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/teachingstories.briancullen.net\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10816"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}