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Come Home Again

jukeboxparadiseflierIn the show, Jukebox Paradise, Deloris Keller sings the song Come Home Again. In the story, this song was a big hit during World War II and far away in the thick of the action, a wounded soldier named Fred is listening to the radio and the sound of her voice. It is this song, coming from so far away, that gives Fred the will to survive and to eventually come back home and build a new life.

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"Today is the First Day" from Jukebox Paradise

Today is the First DayThis year, one of my big areas of focus is our rock and roll musical, Jukebox Paradise, produced by KPB Theatre. This is a musical theatre production that has been in my head since 1989 and it is finally coming to the stage at the end of November 2016 in Nagoya. Please contact me to get your tickets. The script was written by Gary Beaubouef and it is directed by Steve Pottinger. Here’s a quick description that Sarah and I wrote up for the program:

Jukebox Paradise – What you’ll see and hear on the stage in front of you today is really a culmination of so many ingredients, and among them you’ll discover 17 songs, 25 years’ worth of musical reflections and enhancements, 1 superb script, 1 dedicated production team, 33  hardworking actors and dancers from 12 countries, 5 talented musicians, blended together over the course of 12 months of rehearsals.
The end result is a sweet and nostalgic musical whose roots were planted many years ago in a young man’s imagination. It started in 1989 when I was 20 years old and totally inspired by Grease. After being on stage for that production, I came up with the concept of the Jukebox world and shortly after, the very first song came to life in words and music.
This dream took a long time to come to life, but the end result is most definitely worth the wait. We are certain that you will agree, too. Thank you to all involved, both on stage and behind the scenes, and an especially big thank you to you, the audience, for coming to share in this dream of a Jukebox world.
So sit back, set aside the fast pace of the 21st century, and join us for a trip back in time to the sights and sounds of Hawaii, 1962. Or, in other words… Paradise. Mahalo!

In this post, I’d like to talk a little about one of the songs in the show. Near the end of Act 2 in Jukebox Paradise, you will hear the song Today is the First DayToday is the First Day is a cute little song that I wrote on guitar in an open G tuning. It just seemed to fall out of the guitar and the air effortless as if it was already complete. It’s always nice when that happens. It has the feel of the old Beatles song, Blackbird, or reaching back much further, it echoes the harmonies and musical progressions of Bach’s Air on a G String. Nothing complicated – just a sweet little song.
The song was originally in Act 1. We cut the song from the show. It just wasn’t working.
The song was supposed to be a sweet duet that gently led into a really boisterous rock and roll scene with dancers and lots of actors involved.
But the song didn’t work. Not at all.
It sure is a sweet song, but theatre requires flow and dynamics and sometimes the right song is not the right song because it is not helping the flow of the show.
A musical is a balancing act of dialogue, singing, acting, music, dancing, story, costumes, props, and so much more. Everything has got to flow together and this song didn’t work.
So the song was cut along with a section of dialogue that was slowing things down. It was a difficult decision and it was also the right decision.
Yet the song, Today is the First Day, is now back in the show. It has returned to the show in a much more important position, right before the last scene. And it works. It works really well. Sometimes, what was the wrong song becomes the right song because it helps the flow of the show and reinforces the message of the story.
It is no longer a duet because it has developed much further. Now it is sung by most of the major characters – one line each – in a beautiful and moving rendition that shows how the characters have grown and come together during the story.
An old maxim that I like says, “There is no failure, only feedback.”
The song hadn’t failed – it had simply given us feedback about how to make the show better.
And that’s what the lyrics of Today is the First Day are about.
Imagine if we were to able to live our lives following that maxim – to try to believe that every ‘failure’ is actually feedback that can help us to learn something.
That is not always an easy to do , yet in every failed exam, in every heartbreak, and in every sickness, there is something to be learned. These are not all easy lessons and they are certainly not the kind of lesson that we may have wanted. Instead, they are the realities of life showing us that things are not always smooth and that we have to keep learning. Life can be really messy sometimes.
Relationships, jobs, health, finances, happiness – these are not linear progressions that keep improving over time. Life sends us some tough stuff and we all face difficulties at times.
When we face hardship, we begin to draw on strength and other resources that we didn’t know we had. Ironically, so often, it’s really only when we face a challenge that we keep learning and begin to get to know ourselves at a deeper level.
Each day and each failure is a little opportunity to get feedback that can help us to become more ourselves. In Today is the First Day, one of the main characters, Stevie sings:

“I go north when you go south
The choice is always mine
I will make this life my own
And I will make it fine. “

Stevie makes his choices and takes the responsibility of building his own life. He is willing to learn from any ‘failure’ that comes his way because it really is feedback.
There isn’t really much point in getting ‘success’ in everything if you don’t make your own choices. That success would belong to someone else, the one who made the choice for you. We are responsible for our own lives.
As Stevie sings in another song from Jukebox Paradise, Music My Friend

“Choices my friend, you have them
Choices my friend, be strong “

We always have choices. Sometimes it’s easier to let others make choices for us and to have someone else to blame when things don’t go perfectly. But this is our life and these are our choices.
Going back to the song, Today is the First Day, we hear the lines:

“When God made the world, He blessed us with free will
And I won’t trade that right for a dollar bill”

Every day is the first day of the rest of our life. What a cliché!
True. I think I first saw the phrase written on one of those little feel-good signs that your mother hangs in your kitchen.
And just because it is a cliché doesn’t negate the fact that it is true.
Every day, we have choices. We can choose to continue doing the things we have always done and getting the results we have always got. Or we can choose to make different choices in order to get the results that we really want in our life. When we decide to take responsibility for our choices, that is when we really can start to live and to learn.

“Because life is a pleasure
And a beautiful treasure
And whether we measure
By work or by leisure
Now’s the time to choose
Choose who I will be.
Today is the first day
Today is the first day
Today is the first day of the rest of my life.”


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Generative Skills

Generative-model-1-e1314984752853Not all skills are created equal. I’m a big fan of continuing to learn and continuing to learn new skills. Recently, however, I’ve been frequently noticing the fairly-obvious fact that some skills open up more possibilities than other skills.
For example, learning a language is what I would call a “generative skill”–the type of skill that opens up many possibilities.

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Thinking about Words #1 – Financial Security

Today I was thinking about financial security and recognized that somehow I felt a little uncomfortable with the term. This surprised me because logically it makes a lot of sense to me and obviously everyone can benefit from financial security in all kinds of ways.
However, every time I said ‘financial security’ to myself, I felt a slight twinge of stress in my shoulders and over the years I have learned that this kind of message from our somatic mind, or body or unconscious or whatever you want to call it, is generally worth listening to.
So I started playing with some metaphors and images in my mind and the word ‘security’ immediately brought up the image of a castle protected by a moat, a great gate and knights patrolling. The archers are always ready to launch a long-distance volley of deadly arrows on anyone approaching who looks dangerous. Inside, the king of the castle and the land, is living in ‘security’, protected by the water and walls and strong men.

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What do we mean by 'thinking'?

Currently I’m working on a textbook called Tools for Thinking. It’s based on a series of activities that I’ve been using with my third year Japanese university students for the last few years. As well as being a language skills textbook, it also aims to provide practice in a range of critical thinking skills which can be applied to real-world personal and professional situations.

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GOAL Textbook – 2nd Edition

Last year, I wrote a textbook with Ben Backwell called GOAL – Identify and Achieve Your Life Goals. We have been very happy with the feedback from teachers and students. However, as a tool for learning English, we felt that the book could be improved. So we have been hard at work.
And now after several months of rewriting, we are proud to present the 2nd edition of GOAL.
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Past Life Regression – Real or Imagined?

past-lifeRecently, I have been doing more past-life regression under hypnosis with several clients who wanted to explore previous existences. This is always a fascinating area. Are these experiences of past lives real or imagined?

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Explorations in NLP and Language Teaching Book – Now Available!

91EKtZkk7DL._SL1500_Finally, we have got this book complete and into the Amazon store. You can buy it here.
This book has emerged from research, presentations, and workshops over the last 5-6 years. Explorations in NLP & Language Teaching is a collection of papers exploring how the ideas of NLP can be used in language teaching.

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Photos from NLP Festival 2015

Here are some of the photos from the NLP Festival 2015 which we held in Nagoya on October 30 – November 1. What a wonderful weekend. Thanks so much to everyone for joining.

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NLP Connections Festival – A Great Success

The NLP Connections Festival was held in Nagoya on October 30-November 1, and it was a beautiful celebration of NLP and related fields.
NLP Festival 2015
Thanks to everyone who came along to the events. We are looking forward to doing it again soon.